I am independent enough to take my own decisions. I am almost a legal adult by now. But still, there are certain things that I know that I will never be permitted to do. I cannot have an evening party without permission. I cannot move about fearlessly. Once I step out of my house, there is a big bad world I enter into. I am subject to all sorts of restrictions.
There are so many things that I want to do but often I'm put off with excuses like,
'Being a girl, it's unsafe. You don't know how people out there are.'
i guess this isn't my story, but every girl goes through all this atleast once.
I know all this is not without reason. The daily newsflash is enough to scare my parents about what all I could go through. This is for my own safety. But I would never accept safety at the cost of my Dreams. There has to be a compromise. The society has to change it's morals.
I don’t smoke....
I don’t drink....
I don’t party every weekend....
I don’t wear three inches of make up....
I’m a girl, and I’m me. I’m not going to change for anyone...
It's a man's world, they say.
But if this is the truth then why were women manufactured in the first place?
The world runs on their shoulders...
Being teenagers what we face is just a trailer to the actual picture that this world has in store for us. After all the progress, there are still certain things that are unchanged and others that have recently popped up.
Most guys can discuss their girlfriends at family dinners. For most girls, this is a 'Do Not Try this at Home' stunt. If girl's are not supposed to keep boyfriends, then how on earth do all guys get their girlfriends from? No matter what the rule is, it should be equally applicable to all. The game should be fair.
The world out there is equally bad for all. There are certain acceptable points of differentiation between guys and girls, but apart from those, everything else holds no meaning.
If a girl has many guy friends, she probably doesn't have a good character. In the case of a guy, he is a dude.
This is what our mentality is. After all the progress, this is where we stand.
Whenever people gossip about a certain thing, it usually comprises of a girl, "her short dresses, her hair color, her friends circle".
Being girls, we are always under watchful eyes. There has to be a change in people's perspective. These dual faced opinions have to be modified, the sooner the better.
' Everything changed the day she figured out
there was exactly enough time
for the important things in Her life.'
#kanman☺♥
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